I think it’s a matter of opinion on what the definition of “sex” is, I have been brought up in a christian family where sex before marriage is extremely discouraged, (I’m bi, but only out to two friends, if this matters) so me and my boyfriend had oral sex, etc., and I didn’t think of it as “sex”. Thinking “sex” was just intercourse, therefor same-sex sex isn’t sex… BUT then I had sex and realised it’s not much different from oral, etc., so now I consider it all “sex” so now I would consider whatever lesbians do to be sex. |